Today I hung with 6 of my friends at a local shopping centre. It was good fun, indeed. We walked around aimlessly, as we had nothing to do, and made lots of... crude jokes. OK, I didn't make crude jokes, but others did. We ate food, sat on the grass and looked at formal suits for two of the guys with us, including Tenuto Tuo :)
Half an hour before the girls left, the guys in the group left to catch a bus home. Yeah, sure, just leave half-an-hour before the organised leaving time. Gosh :P
Anyway, this left Phantomess, Gojo, Miss Invisible and I. We sat at some benches for about half-an-hour and just chatted. This was, strangely, probably my favourite part of the day. We started with some gossip but this quickly turned into a deep discussion about other people's internal issues, our relationships with our parents and what makes a good relationship. I enjoyed this a lot. It reminded me that I can have some seriously fun and stupid times with these people but, just as easily, have serious, deep, emotional discussions with them.
I mean, come on, last night I spent fangirling over several foreign singers with Miss Invisible and today, I was talking to her about how we don't open up about our issues etc.
We discussed how relationships don't work if a couple (whether romantic, or friendship wise) have nothing in common, but they don't work if they have EVERYTHING in common and I totes agree. Who wants a boring relationship where you like the same stuff? Not me, bros. This reminds me of an episode of How I Met Your Mother. Ted talked about how he and Zoey where always "challenging" each other in their relationship and how they'd never agree on anything. He compared this to Lily and Marshall who are always agreeing with each other and seem to have one mind. I think you need a medium, indeed. In a friendship or romantic relationship. It'd be way too boring to agree on everything and way too frustrating to agree on nothing.
I was totally going to have more to say on that subject, but I can't be bothered now. I have a loaded episode of Toradora! waiting for me. I am determined to finish this anime by the end of these holidays. I'd like to finish Durarara!! too, but I doubt I will. I looked at Part 2 of the episode I have loaded and the subtitles said what my post's title is. Oh, how I love taking things out of context.
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